Career and work
Why being on the identical launching sites, one women quickly enough move forward, them perceive as equivalent partners, and others and remain good executive employees and no more that? In what a secret of success of one and failure of others?
At first you discuss (well, you the newcomer). At first of you are afraid (you can is inadequate, or is avaricious, or «стервозна», etc.). At first to you do not trust (certainly, you do not know). All is a consequence of that you were arranged for new work, and still know nobody. BUT! You have exactly month – for this purpose what to prove that you the GOOD FELLOW, that you DO NOT SAY lies, DO NOT DODGE, and that you have certain MORAL PRINCIPLES (that is not unimportant).
Many ladies dream to work in man's collective. Women in this occasion create iridescent and sometimes illusions contradicting each other. It is not necessary to think, that men will consider you as a being weak and defenceless. As soon as you have crossed a threshold of "a man's flower bed», for the new employees you have died as a weak being. To forgive misses and to wipe tears gathers nobody. Whether also to the majority of men frankly to spit critical days at you or simply the head is ill.
You with pleasure tear off leaflets in a calendar and put daggers in the daily log. Before holiday remains: the month, eighteen days, two weeks … the Visa is issued, tickets are bought also hotel is reserved. Still absolutely slightly and you will far from here. But also it "slightly" it is necessary to go through somehow. It is desirable also with advantage. «I will make all, when I will return», - approximately so I have told to the colleagues when went on leave last summer. And I really have made all, when have returned. Only to return to me it was necessary for four days earlier, than planned. Because because of my "tails" in work of the whole division the jam … was formed Wish to appear on my place? Is not present?
Work not a wolf – in wood will not escape. But to run about on it all the same it is necessary. Especially, if works two and more. "Multimachine operators" can be compared with индуистским god Shivoj. But to cope with several works, it is necessary to have not some hands, and time and representation that is written in the law.
Бешенный rate of our life forces to run behind increase on a career ladder, a recognition, self-realisation. Work, work and once again work – here everything, than are engaged many of us for the sake of achievement of the purposes. Whether but so such purposes are necessary for us? Or many of the business lady would be much happier, if have forgotten about career and grew up tulips in the court yard? Today speech about anticareerists – women who refuse to build career meaningly.
If for any reasons you did not work long enough time, «will return to a system» to you extremely difficult. Also has put here not only in the appeared psychological block, but also in the guarded relation of the prospective employer. How to the housewife to start conquest of career tops with the least losses?
Possibility to work дистанционно is, probably, the biggest bonus which «hostages of office» with development of technologies could receive the Internet. In the western countries large corporations with the big scope load the employees with work out of office. In our country this tendency only starts to gain in strength. It will be especially interesting to understand, what positive aspects at such work how correctly to organise it and in what pluses of such work consist.
Today in many vacancies it is possible to read a similar phrase: «Wages by results of interview». Such variant has plus. If you prove to be, in the opinion of the employer as the valuable employee you have a possibility already at an initial stage to receive more. That you have managed to mention all the abilities, talents and have not blurted out superfluous, let's understand, to what it is necessary to direct attention.
Перфекционизм name the main female illness of the XXI-st century. It would Seem, what bad in aspiration always to be on the ball? But consequences перфекционизма, finished excessively, at times happen terrible: depression, an anorexia, a label of "the old maiden», career crash, propensity to a suicide …
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