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Friendship in working collective: pluses and minuses
1. Favorable atmosphere
We well know, how depends on atmosphere on work much. One business when around people, it is absolute to you not the nice. And absolutely another – the girlfriend. For work you run with pleasure, after all prior to the beginning of the working day you will have time to share all joyful and sad events in private life.
It something reminds me school days. I did not love school but when for 7th year of training our class have disbanded on profiles "mathematical" and "humanitarian", to me remarkable little girl Mashka has got to a class Kushka from which we have strong made friends. Since then I began to love school much more. Pleasant joint campaigns in school (it has appeared, we lived in one house) became what, breaks and long returnings (we went circles to go longer) home!
Undoubtedly, girlfriends brighten up our life, do not allow to long and lose courage.
2. The help and mutual assistance
The rare colleague will spend time to help you if has collected a lot of work and you simply physically be not in time. But the present girlfriend necessarily will help, after all knows, that in case of need you too will not throw it. In a word, remarkably, when on work there is a person on which help you can always count.
3. In a course of all affairs
The person-single, first of all, suffers from an information lack. Earlier, in days of deficiency, the best girlfriend informed you where will give sausage and stockings. Now the situation has slightly changed. When in our reception worked Аня, we knew, when in a warehouse will sell wine (the limited number of bottles) under the cost price, after all its girlfriend of Light was the supply manager. Now, when on place Ани sits Оля, and on place Светы – Natasha, we do not know anything and wine we buy in shop on the general conditions without discounts.
If you have a girlfriend in accounts department, you know, when there will be an advance payment or the salary. The girlfriend from a reception will inform, when the chief leaves on a meeting (and you with quiet soul can run in shop or a hairdressing salon).
4. Will warn about "danger"
If over you clouds who as not the girlfriend will inform you on it gather? You can "be prepared" for approach, consider, how to react to "bombardment", and to have time to create to yourself a decent alibi.
5. The "cover" organisation
The girlfriend "will always cover" you if you, for example, are late for work or, on the contrary, "escape" earlier.
- It has gone to committee on retail trade, - the girlfriend though perfectly knows smoothly will answer, that you do manicure before forthcoming appointment or take away the child from musical school (because the husband could not today).
Friendship "MINUSES" on work
1. A lot of time leaves on conversations
Sometimes you notice, that it is a lot of working hours really leaves on conversations. Especially it is obvious, if your salary directly depends on the performed work. If, for example, at the journalist all «сокабинетницы» - girlfriends, will be written by her much less, than if one worked in an office. Thus, labour productivity and the salary suffer, while you with the girlfriend enjoy dialogue.
2. An ambiguous estimation of friendship a management
By the way to tell, the friendship in collective is ambiguously regarded also by a management. It is pleasant to the chief, when there is no склоков and scandals, but he too does not welcome friendship. First, the majority of heads considers, that the office is not club on interests and to go for work it is necessary only with one purpose, namely to increase profitableness of the enterprise and incessantly to raise image of firm. Secondly, any friendship (and especially smoke breaks for 20 minutes) takes away precious working hours. Thirdly, when subordinates are on friendly terms, they can unite against the chief and cover each other. In that case the boss it will be simple not in a course of many "punctures" and errors in work which will carefully disappear joint efforts of girlfriends. Chiefs periodically show the aversion to friendship between colleagues, in particular, replace them from an office in an office (well directly as at school – that did not talk at lessons).
3. Quarrels badly influence an overall performance
Even the most unseparable girlfriends have quarrels. You could not divide the man or show egoism in the relation each other. And if both of you besides also are obstinate (and have not got used to concede), quarrel can be tightened. Here then to go for work to you it will not want any more. Working capacity falls, and mood – «on zero».
4. The confidential weapon
God forbid to you with the girlfriend not to divide something on work. For example, to apply for the same supervising post. Rivalry will result not only in the termination of friendly relations, but also that all your punctures can become known to a management.
5. Danger of exposure
And it is yet necessary to forget, that the girlfriend knows not only about your working secrets, but also details of your private life. Certainly, to open them to "all light» would be meanness top. But you for some reason start to be afraid. After all that, having come to be in one company to "blurt out" to your husband that you flirt (or even secretly meet) with the fellow worker, the big efforts to apply it is not necessary. And here to spoil your private life by it it is possible.
To be on friendly terms or not to be on friendly terms – here in what a question. Certainly, to be on friendly terms. But remember, that nobody will keep your secrets better, than you. Therefore do not tell about all even to the best girlfriends. And you will be where in большей safety and on work, and houses, than even with the most intimate girlfriend.