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The woman in man's collective: ways of a survival
Many ladies dream to work in man's collective. Women in this occasion create iridescent and sometimes illusions contradicting each other. It is not necessary to think, that men will consider you as a being weak and defenceless. As soon as you have crossed a threshold of "a man's flower bed», for the new employees you have died as a weak being. To forgive misses and to wipe tears gathers nobody. Whether also to the majority of men frankly to spit critical days at you or simply the head is ill.
And it needs to be perceived as a game rule in a man's command: rigid struggle where there are winners both won, and an indispensable prize — money or success.
The woman in man's collective — not a weak link. She is a player equal in rights. If not to consider this rule it is possible to lose.
Play in football. It will help you to comprehend work psychology in a man's command. Learn, for example, what for it is necessary to close weak spots, learn to move, think, count quickly a situation on some courses forward and thus always to remember that it is necessary to score a goal...
Master chess. Find out, how figures go, and thus try to understand, what of them in man's collective you are. It becomes obvious, that it is not pleasant to colleagues, if "elephant" makes "knight's move", and "pawn" to turn at once to "queen".
The lady is in man's collective under steadfast attention. Women consider, that beautiful dresses, refined ornaments, a stylish make-up and thin spirits will provide general admiration and prompt promotion. However the man's brotherhood is so keen on work, that hardly will pay attention, than from you smells: spirits «Chanel № 5» or cologne «Шипр». The man's psychology consists that they do not notice trifles.
Psychologists have noticed: constantly being in the attention centre, the young lady terribly worries concerning the appearance — and receives stress. Any jackets with ruches, dresses, not speaking about miniskirts, influences "subcortex" of colleagues of an opposite sex раздражающе. If round you all in suits, and you — in a dress the stranger on «a life holiday» will look. But can receive the invitation to a coffee cup.
At lady's wear there should be by all means any detail of man's "uniform". Not necessarily trousers. Let it will be the jacket, a waistcoat or a scarf simulating a tie.
It is necessary to "do some shooting" a little eyes and at you already a ring on a finger. But representatives of the man's brotherhood which have run wild without a female society, охмурить and захомутать as it is difficult, as inhabitants of a man's monastery. On service of men as the people aimed at success, that first of all excites, how much the lady will be useful in work, and then (from 13.00 till or after 18.00) — its other qualities. Otherwise «you simply superfluous detail...»
Do not shoot eyes, and be engaged in study is better. To begin with will not prevent to receive knowledge on a speciality. Even the most ill-natured man's collective will admire the professional of any floor.