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Young mum after... 30

When to young mum for thirty

1. The general director of the Medical female centre, the candidate of medical sciences Tatyana Vladimirovna Kuznetsova.
At young mummies the problems
Till now on акушерским to canons some doctors name the women who are giving birth after 30, старородящими. However all over the world the physiological age of women mismatches for a long time already the chronological. Conditions - social, economic, psychological have besides, changed, in medicine there were new techniques … So similar event for a long time already not a rarity. However the reasons on which pregnancy was postponed, happen different. One - have decided to take place before as professionals, to get education, to reach certain material level. Others - could not give birth because of barreness. If the first are assured of themselves and know, that wanted, by the second - with complexes, such women feel defective and how many years it was, they will achieve desired pregnancy. And then - to preserve the kid against all hardship, real and invented. There is still big enough category of lonely women which, having decided, that prospects to create a family at them already are not present, give birth to the child "for itself". Often they are not too provided, but to the full present the kid with love and caress. But, growing up, he starts to understand, that his mother cannot give it that contemporaries … have It is necessary to be very wise to overcome arising problems. And, at last, the number of women which have lost the unique son (by the way recently has increased, it is one more argument in favour of large families). To me even addressed from the ministry of armed forces with the request to help mother of the hero. To such women to help uneasy, after all they still should restore psychological balance. And on it time is necessary.

From all listed categories optimum conditions for a birth and education of children at those who has meaningly postponed a birth of the child. As a rule, such women watch over the health, are able to be protected, and pregnancy plan. And about education of children in such families are in earnest, trying, on the one hand, to create to the kid all conditions for development, with another - not to indulge all its whims.
But childbirth for any woman - serious test. During this period all diseases … become aggravated and shown
And, of course, with the years such diseases becomes more and more.
So if 20-year-old women react to stress pressure decline by 35 years the risk of reaction on hypertensive type increases, and pressure increase very badly influences a fruit.
It is necessary to show consideration for treatment простудных diseases - quite often quinsy lead to rheumatic process. And overcoolings can break work of kidneys, chronic processes in which also very badly influence pregnancy - for a fruit it very dangerously. Propensity to a thrombophlebitis, infringements in hemostasis system will be shown eventually and if not to begin illness treatment in time, pregnancy can interrupt or end мертворождением a fruit.
Thyroid gland diseases - adverse ecology are frequent also, shortage of iodine upsets all hormonal parametres and at absolutely young women, and at mature - especially. And still the diabetes, an anaemia, gastroenteric diseases … Pregnancy also will instantly stimulate also all malignant tumours.
But all these diseases can be today and at absolutely young. Therefore if the woman in 35 years is healthy, its chances to give birth it is not less healthy child than at 20-year-old.
Often women, decided to become pregnant after 35, frighten of illness of Down. Even result statistics on whom danger for позднородящих sharply increases. But among my patients of similar cases was not. Besides, now it is possible to make амниоцентез - a fence околоплодной liquids for genetic research which allows to diagnose in advance both illness of Down, and other congenital diseases.
At young mummies the problems. Recently absolutely young woman has given birth to healthy twins, left maternity home and in some hours it have found dead - it has accepted a drug, but a usual dose for it weakened by sorts, it has appeared deadly.
Such hardly happens with the formed, responsible woman who has given birth to the desired child. But that it has occurred in time and without complications, it is necessary not only to conduct a healthy way of life, but also before pregnancy approach to pass inspection: to make ultrasonic, to check up coagulability of blood, to make the analysis of urine, blood … the Doctor will appoint, if treatment - preparations, vitamins … that "small house" in which the fruit will develop is necessary, was strong, warm and beautiful. Therefore especially at late pregnancy it is necessary to address not in district clinics, and in specialised establishments where there is all necessary equipment for carrying out of the most exact medical researches where will much fast define all circle of possible problems - only then you will not waste time, which and so it is a little.
And the last - the son I have given birth in 30, and the daughter - in 42 years. Not at once I have dared at the second pregnancy. "As I will lead the child in school - all will think, that I its grandmother", - I spoke to the son who persuaded me most. "If you are excited only with it, - he has answered, - that I will drive it in school". The fine girl was born. It to all of us has brought a lot of pleasure and happiness, and to me has prolonged a youth because and now I feel myself young mum of the young girl.

2. Alexander Oskarovich Tesler, the psychotherapist, academician РАМТН
To adult mums is what to transfer to the kid
In my opinion, if we wish to live in a healthy society, the woman should approach to a birth of the child reasonably, instead of to breed with speed of a cod, and from this point of view the most optimum age - from 25 till 35-40. After all parents should give the chance to children to take place: and this not only good formation … is not less important, whom they see since a birth before themselves - after all on this image and similarity they build the future. The woman after 30, as a rule, the taken place person, to it is what to transfer to the kid, it can to understand itself also subtleties of children's psychology, and to modify behaviour of the husband. Even if mum works, she will try to organise so time of the fumes that it received all necessary knowledge at its age and abilities. Women at such age more think much of children and even if they have some the free time, all this time is given to the child. And he, looking at parents, sees, to what to aspire, and understands - to become successful, it is necessary to be formed, responsible, constrained … Besides it feel more protected because self-assured mum is more critical concerns often superficial claims of teachers and does not give the child on their worry.
If a family full children see before themselves the taken place father. For girls it is not less important, than for boys. Daughters, growing, choose to themselves in husbands same. Someone will tell, that if the girl is too legible, it is more difficult to it to find to itself pair. But unless it is better to exchange the life for the first comers. It in not so developed families give the daughter in marriage faster easy to sigh. But then such mums are compelled to listen to complaints of the daughter to the husband-drunkard and children-dvoechnikov.
Besides, young mums irresponsibly breed on peak of the most different diseases, thoughtlessly having a drink beer or that is stronger during all pregnancy and feeding. And adult mum before to become pregnant, will carry out all demanded researches, will execute all doctor's instructions and then will do the utmost, that its child could find the place in a life.

3. Bazanov P. A the candidate of medical sciences, the gynecologist-reproduktolog, the head of branch EKO of clinic Mother and the Child.
Today it is possible to provide all
Our society has strongly changed for last years. It becomes frequent requirement to become mother a paramount problem only after 35, already after achievement of the certain status, when behind years of intense work, the constant stress, the illnesses transferred "standing". Even more often the woman at this age repeatedly marries and is interested in a birth of the child in new marriage.
Birth of the child - so important event, that doctors even specially allocate the reproductive period in a life of the woman.
Unfortunately, to 35 - to 40 years time optimum already behind the back. But the got life experience, and also the realised desire to have the child do these women by very accurate patients carefully following all recommendations of the attending physician. Certainly, age - important, but far not defining criterion of an estimation of the woman as patients. More important a consequence of age changes, therefore for a treatment estimation it is necessary to define functional activity яичников. Besides, it is necessary to reveal possible deviations in work of a thyroid gland, a hypophysis, adrenal glands, яичников. Often important there is a definition of the infectious status.
If activity level яичников is high enough, but there is a suspicion on adhesive process in a small basin or, for example, on external генитальный an endometriosis the doctor for certain will suggest to spend a laparoscopy. During this operation the condition of bodies of a small basin is defined, passableness маточных pipes is checked, solderings are dissected. It often happens enough to cure the woman of barreness.
If problems with health much, it is necessary to spend program ЭКО - it is not necessary to lose precious time. It is now recognised, what exactly "children from a test tube" - the most effective technique of treatment of barreness.
It is impossible to forget, that in advanced age quality яйцеклеток gradually starts to decrease, frequency of various chromosomal infringements raises, and ЭКО allows (at presence of, of course, corresponding most complicated equipment and the skilled doctor-embriologa) to execute so-called предимплантационную genetic diagnostics. It means - it is possible to "look" a chromosomal complement of each concrete embryo and to solve, whether it is necessary to use it for pregnancy approach, whether it will lead to occurrence of some heavy diseases in the future child.
Certainly, the woman aged nearby or more than 40 should consult at genetics. And at pregnancy approach it is desirable to carry out the research, allowing to estimate a chromosomal complement of the future child.
In any case, these diagnostic manipulations together with so-called "double" and "threefold" tests (screenings-tests for definition of degree of risk of occurrence of chromosomal infringements) allow the become pregnant patient, afraid to remain without children for ever to be convinced of absence of genetic infringements at the developing child. Agree, that a birth of the healthy long-awaited child - the greatest award for any parents, and for families which so have much made for this purpose, and for a long time.